You probably are eager to discover what are the 3 biggest mistakes almost every guy makes when trying to seduce a woman. Doing any of these things will almost certainly result in you going home alone… again.
It happens all the time. You think you’re getting close and you get excited. You walked into a situation where there are a lot of women around: a bar, a community meeting, or maybe a wedding. Usually you will never even talk to a woman but for some reason, tonight is different. You manage to strike up a conversation with someone.
This is farther than you ever expected to go, now you panic, you’re almost never in this situation.
You reach into your bag of tricks but they’re everyone’s bag of tricks… and they’re wrong, almost certain to get you rejected. What are they?
1. Being too nice or friendly.
Many guys try this and it will fail every time. From “Can I buy you a drink?” to just a big smile, most guys think that the nicer they act around a pretty girl, the more likely the girl will like them. Well, this ISN’T true.
Most women think that if you’re exceptionally friendly right off the bat, you want something. And that something, women know, is SEX. This freaks them out, at an unconscious level. All you have to do to fix this mistake is to ACT NORMAL. Not so hard, is it?
In fact, the more that you act like you DON’T want sex, the more likely you are to keep her attention. Think about it, most guys she talks to want sex. You need to be different.
2. Acting Like a Jerk
Many guys have realized that “being nice” doesn’t work, so they attempt the opposite approach. They act rude, condescending, or off-putting. This strategy is just as bad. You think that most girls want the “bad boy” right?
Just be yourself. Act normal. If you are COMFORTABLE with feeling attracted with a woman, and if that attraction doesn’t change your behavior, that sends a powerful message to woman that will TURN THEM ON.
It works like magic.
3. Talking About Yourself
We’ve all done it, we try to impress the woman by discussing all of our accomplishments and making ourselves seem more important than we are. We try to be Gerard Butler, but the problem is that everyone does that. Every guy who talks to her tries to pump up his own tires, tries to impress her.
Ask her about herself, her family, her friends. Try to find out what is important to her. These will all give you far more mileage than most guys.